Since I went to my daughter's parent's meeting for soccer tonight... I decided I would talk about extra curricular activities. I am a firm believer in the fact that they are important for many reasons!
First of all.... I think a child who stays busy and participates in sports, music, or other things like it, are far more successful in other aspects of life.
As I grew up, I was involved in many things... Karate, baseball, music, boy scouts etc. I truly believe that my success in academics, my social skills, and my ability to set goals and accomplish them, had a lot to do with the activities I participated in.
For example... when I was in fifth grade, I was having some behavior issues in school. I was supposed to test for my high blue belt in karate, and was held out of that test as a result of my actions in school. After that rude awakening, I consciously made an effort to correct my behavior.
I also feel that because I was so busy, I was able to focus more when it came to school and personal care. The skills I got from being involved in extra curricular activities translated directly into the more essential parts of my life.
I also feel that my dad, being there for my activities, showing his interest and care, pushing me to do what I wanted and do it well was crucial. I mean, he never took my to an event, and just left me there like a day care. He stayed, from start to finish, watched, cheered, supported my successes and kept my head up after failures. Its strange to look back and realize how I tried to impress him, even though I knew I couldn't disappoint him for trying my best.
When it comes to the munchkin, I just want her to do what she enjoys, at her ability level, with a smile. I'm not planning to be the parent that tries to force a high level of performance to live vicariously through her. I just want to support her interests, whatever they may be, and to teach her to do her best. I think that positive reinforcement will make her stronger, more independent and of course, happy!
In my personal opinion.... I don't see a reason to spoil a child with whatever material items they want. They should learn to value money, and to work for the things things they want, beyond what they just need. I do, however; believe in spoiling them with life enriching activities. I believe that they will make her more well rounded, teach her to follow her dreams and will provide a foundation for other successes in life.
It honestly breaks my heart to hear about art programs, athletic programs, music programs among others being cut from school. Those things are amazing activities for children. There is a need to work the creative side of the mind. Also, those group activities are also necessary for building social skills and teaching the importance of teamwork. Where is else one supposed to learn those traits at such a young age?
Whatever activities Aubrie decides to undertake, I will be there for her, with her and supporting her, every step of the way. Cheering in the stands, walking with her door to door to sell girl scout cookies, watching her draw and paint or sing and dance. Whatever it may be, I'm supportive.
I hope other parents do the same!
That's all for tonight folks! Have a great evening! And enjoy your extra curriculars as well!
Thanks again,
Chris
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